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"If you have a cure for a disease and dont share it with the ones who you love then you're not only hurting them but yourself as well. I think the same can be said of a cure for the spiritual disease called sin. The cure is a relationship with Jesus Christ who died on the cross for our sins so that me may be free. So if we dont tell others of this cure, who else are we hurting? How about Jesus?"


I did not write this.  I copied it from someone's status update on Facebook recently.  Read it again.  How does this make you feel?  How motivated are you to act upon this?


Now, I have been following Jesus for 26 years and reading this made me feel anger.  Yes, anger.  I like this person and they are a friend of mine but my initial reaction was, "Really?  This is the best that we have to offer as Christ-followers?  No thanks."


Picture this.  It is like this person is standing on the corner of Internet Road and World Wide Web Boulevard with a bullhorn yelling via their status update at anyone passing by declaring that they are right and everyone else is diseased and wrong.  

((deep breath))

Now I have to admit that as I am typing this I am sitting here in quite a tension.  I want communicate in a way that points out how ineffective this type "drive-by evangelism" is but yet I don't want to be condemning either.  So I am in a tension that does not want to condone this kind of Christian behavior not condemn this person.


So let's take a look at the method and the message.



First up, where is the love in this statement?  Do you feel the overwhelming sense of God's infinite love and grace from this declaration?  If we analyze the posture of this statement it becomes obvious by the words that were chosen that there is something wrong with us.  Yeah, us.  "If you... don't share it with the ones you... you're not only... but yourself as well."  Did ya' catch that?  

Let's dig into this a bit deeper.  The message starts with the "you" statements while setting up the problem then moves into "we" and  "us" statements in the resolution portion.  The message is communicated in a passive-aggressive voice.  Who is the one with the problem?  Everyone else is.


To be honest, I find that I even struggle with communicating like this myself.  As I attempt to share my leadership and spiritual learnings here at covered in dust, I am constantly trying to do it in a grace-filled, loving way that allows for contemplation, reflection, and action without condemnation (assertive style not passive-aggressive).  I do not always succeed and I am sorry.  Seriously.



Moving on...


Notice the non-sequitur argument assumed in this statement, "so that you may be set free."  The cure is a relationship that sets me free? Sets me free of what?  The disease of sin?  How does that work?  I just don't follow the logic.  How about you?  The story starts with a disease and cure then moves to freedom through relationship.  I understand the point the author is trying to make but it just doesn't work for me.  


Next up is the position.  Jesus' position.  He is a cure.  That's not a bad analogy but it is not exactly accurate either.  It would be better to tell the story like this...


"If you saw a Rembrandt covered in mud, you wouldn't focus on the mud or treat it like mud.  Your primary concern would not be the mud at all- though it would need to be removed.  You'd be ecstatic to have something so valuable in your care.  But if you tried to clean it up by yourself, you might damage it.  So you would carefully bring this work of art to a master who could guide you and help you restore it to the condition originally intended.  When people begin treating one another as God's masterpiece waiting to be revealed, God's grace grows in their lives and cleanses them."  (excerpt from No Perfect People Allowed by John Burke)


This "Jesus is the cure" statement embodies the false juxtaposition of the message.  While Jesus can and does cure and heal, it is false to assume that once you willingly follow Jesus with you heart, mind, soul and strength that you are instantly "fixed" or cured.  Mud does not come off the masterpiece without time and effort.  It is a process.  Likewise, our struggle with sin does not get immediately healed nor are we "set free" from sinning the moment we confess Jesus as the leader of our heart and mind and life.  However, this much is true- that we are set free from the control that sin has in our lives as we willingly allow God to work in us and through us.  Maybe that's what is trying to get communicated here.  That we must rely on Him to rescue us from our own dirt and muck.  However, this does not mean that we no longer struggle with the "disease of sin" as this statement seems to delicately postulate.

So this post is as much of a conviction as it is a wake up call to my own life and my chosen communicative voice.  Let's be a people who are known by our love and motivated to move towards others because God made them and they are beautiful.  Let's be a people who realize that everyone is human just like us and needs love and acceptance.  Let's be a people who do not stand on the street corners with bullhorns condemning the world around us.  Maybe then they will see Jesus.


Take a peak at this video before you go...




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sterilized faith?

I recently had to answer this question as part of my residency program for pastoral development and training: "Describe the faith challenges you are currently experiencing related to church planting. (your future ministry) How are you exercising faith in these challenges?"

I am currently engaged as a local missionary in my apartment community.

This is not a free gig no matter what anyone says. There is a financial cost involved and therefore a risk. As an unemployed bloke, I was faced with a decision to "do this thing" trusting that God would provide us with the financial flow that we need to survive. Well, it's getting to that dangerous place of living solely on trusting God. My unemployment benefits are no longer coming in and we have mostly depleted our savings. The next step that we have is to start draining our retirement funds.  This is one area that I am exercising faith.

The other is with relationships. I have lived in a mostly "comfortable Christian" bubble but have ALWAYS craved more. I have always had a radical core that has wanted to push the envelope of how "good Christians" live. Maybe I should say it this way, the way religious people who call themselves Christians live.

There, that's more fitting.

I have done this for years- pushed the envelope, I mean. I remember the freaks and outcasts liking me and the "Christians" questioning my faith because "good Christians" don't associate with the "bad people." My community of Faith (Gateway Church) gets that.

However, it is still tough. The church culture I grew up in sterilized faith and taught me to move towards comfort. In fact, if I had to sum up my faith upbringing it would be that my ultimate goal as a Christian man would to become a nice guy and to live with a comfortable faith that insulates me from the hurt of the world so that I didn't have to go to hell like everyone else. After all, missionaries spread the good news of Christ- especially to other countries- not here and not by me. Pastors care for the hurting and messed up people, not me.

I think I just vomited in my my mouth a little.

This has ALWAYS disturbed me but I never witnessed anyone doing anything different- it was a fake plastic faith (kinda like the tree above). "Love the sinner and hate the sin" was the mantra I had beat into my head by pastors and teachers but I only heard the hate and never saw the love. Why wasn't anyone willing to risk loving the disconnected, fragmented, messed up people? Why was I insulated from the brokenness?

This made me question my own brokenness and left me guilt ridden that I didn't "have it all together." Thank God for a loving community of people committed to authenticity and transparency! Six years ago through relational connectedness in a small group at Christ Community Church, the brokenness started to heal.

So, here I am. Decades after Jesus started moving within my core to rebel against this plastic Christianity devoid of it's grace and love, I am discovering a deeply rooted fear of social persecution. Faith is risk. Living by faith creates tension. Tension can cause life to become uncomfortable. How uncomfortable am I willing to be? My rebellious core tells me to be defiant and move into the uncomfortable and to risk relationship security for eternal purposes. It's just so hard sometimes. It is easy to love the likable people but I am convinced this is NOT the gospel of Jesus.

This is where I stand today- motivated by love, wanting to move towards others but scared of the hurt that it will cause in my own life.

To be continued...

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confession of a skeptical consumerist

confession of a skeptical consumerist

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what a tool

Seriously. What a tool!

Social media and social networking have become a flash flood, overnight phenomenon that has a lot of people questioning it's value in our lives.

So... I am going to jump in on the conversation!

I have encountered quite a few people who have a natural resistance to Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, MySpace, FriendFeed, Orkut, YouTube, Vimeo, Skype, Flikr, SmugMug, Meetup.com, Ping.fm, Last.fm, imeem... and the list goes on. In fact, I have discovered several people who lash out at me in anger about social media and networking.

It makes me wonder... why is that? What causes such a disdain for connectedness?

Fear.

I explored this topic with a dozen social media resistant people and deep down I have heard an underlying contempt for social media and networking because of a fear that it will replace "real" relationships. People who think like this have a very valid point.
In fact, I had one person tell me, "I don't want to be found." Another person commented, "If I want to have a conversation with _________, I would pick up the phone." I mean, there is something fairly narcissistic about this new social medium. Let's just be honest about that. I post something that I think everyone ought to know about me. It's like we're saying, "Look at me! I want you to look at me!" In fact, I am sure you have no doubt even heard some very religious people talk about the evils of these social websites. I am sure that they too have a very valid viewpoint.

Now, if this pisses you off... hang on.

I have also had numerous conversations with people who are actively engaged in social networking and they can't help but get passionately excited about it. They talk about some of their friends, followers, connections as though they know them. They are interacting with people half-way across America and sometimes half-way across the globe with an intentionality that seems to bring them closer together.

How can we resolve this dichotomy of opposing viewpoints? What would make sense of all of this?

One word: tool.

Tools are meant to be used to help achieve a set purpose; they are a means not an end. If the purpose is more narcissistic in nature then it resolves well that anyone with that intent and tendency might really despise social media. If, however, the purpose is more altruistic in nature then it too resolves well that anyone seeking connection and interaction with others would probably enjoy social media.

So, what do I think? What is my opinion? Where do I stand on this issue?

I REALLY enjoy social media and networking. I am a connector and I love engaging in conversations. I especially love engaging humanity in a conversation about God and Faith. I have a passion and curiosity about humanity that fuels me to want to interact with others. I want to get to know their stories; your story.

Let me dig into this a bit more.

I am on Facebook, Twitter,
LinkedIn, FriendFeed, Vimeo, Ping.fm, Last.fm, imeem, Meetup.com, SmugMug (via my wife), Xbox Live, Skype and this website. I am actually pretty positive that I missed a couple. I usually have an online identity of coveredindust... go figure. I also go by my name, Dave Hackbarth, or my gamertag, Hack89D.

If you are a person of the first persuasion, you probably just vomited in your mouth a little when I listed all of my connection points. I understand.

If you are a person of the second persuasion, you may have just thought, "I didn't know you were on Ping.fm... we've gotta connect!" Yes, let's connect!

So here's where it gets real... I don't allow my online connections to be my ONLY connection. Let me say that again. I take my online connections with friends and followers OFFLINE and into the real world. I have real conversations. I have real face-to-face interactions.

In the last year, I have connected offline with the following people:

@ericbryant (Eric is the Navigator with Mosaic in LA; we are engaged in conversation about connecting people back to the God that created them and loves them.)

@iamc (Carolynn has a tremendous story of God's faithfulness, comfort, and hope through extremely tough times.)

@BrilliantSass (Michelle has a great story of trust in the midst of religiosity; wow can I relate!)

@tlovvorn (Traylor found me via this website! He has a story of God's amazing restoration work as it relates to his marriage and family.)

@flabbyironman (Brian was suggested as a friend on Facebook by a mutual friend in Chicago because Brian was moving to Austin. We connected and I got him plugged into my small group.)

I have had phone conversations with several of my online friends and met others in person. I love that I am connected to people in different areas of the country separated by thousands of miles and that we have the opportunity to share our lives with one another.

I love the connection! I love the interaction! My life has been enriched by getting to know people that I would have never met five years ago. Seriously. I would not have traveled to another state just to go meet someone new and strike up a conversation. How about you? Social media and networking has afforded me the opportunity to connect with more people and I love that.

However, there is a warning that lies just beneath the surface that I must address- please do not let social networking be your ONLY connection to others. Please do not substitute online relationships for "real" relationships. God created us to be connected, communal beings and we should use this new tool to enhance and enrich our already connected lives.

I am aware that this topic will probably lead to more conversations since we are just scratching the surface and I am OK with that. So tell me, what's YOUR story? How have you engaged social media and networking? How have you avoided it?

As you comment, please remember the "Rules of Engagement."

Peace.

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